Ykee Benda yasangije abakunzi be uko urugo rwe rumeze, yagarutse ku mahamwe y’ingenzi abagabo bakwiye kugenderaho kugira ngo bagire urugo rwiza kandi ruhamye.
Mu kiganiro cyatambutse kuri YouTube (podacast), Benda yavuze ko abagore ari “izambya zoroshye,” mbere yo gusobanura inshingano yita izi ngenzi ku mugabo uri mu rukundo.
Ykee Benda yavuze ko itumanaho ry’ikorana buhanga rifite uruhure rukomye cyane. Yashimangiye ko “akazi ka mbere” k’umugabo ari ukuvugisha neza umugore, asobanura ko abagore akenshi bumva cyane amagambo avugwa n’umugabo we cyagwa umukunzi, cyane cyane amagambo amunenga.
Yakomeje agaragaza ko kugenzura amarangamurima ari ingenzi, cyane ko bishobora kugufasha ku ngenzura uburakari. Ibi yabigarutseho ashingiye ku mateka ye, uyu muhanzi yavuze ko mb ere yagiraga uburakari bwinshi, ariko nyuma akaza kwisubiraho.
Yagize ati: “Abagabo bakwiye kugenzura uburakari bwabo. Kera narakaraga nabi, ariko ubu ntibyoroshye kumbona narakaye.”
Ykee Bend yagarutse ku kwemera amakosa mu rukundo, avuga ko abagore benshi bagira ikibazo cyo kwemera amakosa yabo igihe bayakoze, mu gihe abagabo bakuze kwemera inshingano n’amakosa yabo.
Uyu muhanzi yanavuze ko yagize uburambe mu rukundo rwashize, aho avuga ko rwagize uruhare rukomeye mu guhindura imitekerereze ye.
Nyuma yo gutandukana n’umugore babyaranye, yavuze ko yafashe igihe cyo kwiyigaho no kwisobanukirwa, ibintu abona ko byamufashije kwitegura neza mbere yo kogera gushaka undi mugore.
Yasoje agira ati: “Nari sobanukiwe, ndanashishikariza abagore gukora ibibahesha agaciro.”
