1. Imirire Iboneye
Kunywa amazi ahagije. Kunywa amazi ni ingenzi cyane ku mubyeyi wonsa. Umubyeyi akwiye kubona amazi menshi kugira ngo atunganye umwana mu buryo bwiza. Amazi abasha gufasha umubyeyi gutanga amata ahagije, kandi yanarinda ibibazo byo kuribwa mu nda n’izindi ndwara nka hemoroyide. Ni byiza ko umubyeyi wonsa yita ku rugero rw’amazi atuma arya, akirinda umunaniro n’indwara.
Gukurikiza igihe cyo gutanga imfashabere. Umwana akwiye gutangira imfashabere ageze ku mezi 6. Ibi ni ingenzi kuko bitanga intungamubiri zikenewe mu mikurire, bifasha mu kubaka ubudahangarwa bw’umubiri ndetse bikanagabanya ibyago byo kugira amaraso make. Imfashabere ifasha umwana kubona intungamubiri zose akenera mu mikurire ye.
2. Gukurikiza Inama z’Abaganga
Gukurikiza inama z’abaganga ni imwe mu ngingo z’ingenzi muri iyi nzira. Umubyeyi agomba gukurikiza inama ahabwa na muganga, cyane cyane mu bihe by’ingenzi nko mu gihe cyo kubyara no mu buryo bwo kwita ku mwana. Abaganga bazi ibikenewe ku mwana muri buri cyiciro cy’ubuzima, bigatuma bashobora gufasha umubyeyi kumenya ibyiza byo gukora.
3. Imyitwarire Iboneye y’Umubyeyi
Kugira ubushishozi. Umubyeyi agomba kwitwararika no kugira ubushishozi mu myitwarire ye. Umwana wumva ko agomba kubona icyo ashatse cyose mu by’ukuri aba afite ababyeyi batamutoza kugira ubushishozi. Ni ngombwa ko umubyeyi agaragaza imyitwarire iboneye kugira ngo umwana nawe ayige, bityo akube umuyobozi mwiza mu muryango.
Kumuha urukundo. Umwana akeneye kugirirwa urukundo n’ababyeyi be kugira ngo akure neza mu mubiri no mu mutima. Uru rukundo rukwiye kugaragarizwa mu bikorwa bitandukanye, nko kumugorora no kumuganiriza. Umubyeyi akwiye kumenya ko urukundo rwonka impamvu nyinshi mu buzima bw’umwana, rugashishikariza gukura mu mimerere myiza.
4. Gukurikirana Imikurire
Ni ngombwa gukurikirana imikurire y’umwana, harimo:
- Ingano y’ibyokurya: Umubyeyi akwiye kumenya ingano y’ibyokurya bimukwiriye bitewe n’imyaka ye; ibi bizamufasha kumenya igihe nyacyo cyo kumugezaho ibiryo.
- Inshuro akwiye kurya ku munsi: Uburyo bwiza bwo gukurikirana imikurire y’umwana ni ugushiraho uburyo bunoze bwo kumugaburira, harimo no kumenya inshuro akwiye kurya.
- Gufata ingamba: Umubyeyi akwiye gufata ingamba mu gihe umwana yanze kurya, akareba ibindi bihe byiza byo kumugezaho amafunguro.
Izi ngingo zote zifashisha umubyeyi mu gurukana ibipimo byiza mu mikurire y’umwana, bikanamufasha kumugira intego mu buzima no mu kugaragaza uburenganzira bwe.
5. Gukomeza Kwiga
Mu rugendo rw’ubuzima bw’umwana, kwiga no gukurikirana amakuru ni ingenzi. Umubyeyi akwiye kwiga ku buzima bw’abana, akamenya uko yitwara mu gutanga urukundo no kubafasha mu kwiga. Amakuru akeneye kuzakurikirana mu mitekerereze y’imiyoborere y’umuryango, ku migirire y’abana, n’uko abona amahirwe y’iterambere mu guterana uyu mwana mu buzima bwe bwa buri munsi.
Kugira ngo umubyeyi abe indorerwamo ikomeye mu mikurire y’abana be, agomba kuguma akurikira ibigezweho mu kwita ku mwana no mu kubaha ubufasha bwose bushoboka. Intego ni ugufatanya n’abandi mu kuzamura urwego rw’ubuzima bwiza mu gihugu.
Umwanzuro
Ku isonga ry’ibikorwa byacu nk’ikigo cy’itangazamakuru, Impinga Media ibungabunga ubuzima bwiza bw’abaturage bayo. Umwana ni urufatiro rw’ejo hazaza heza, bityo kurinda no kwita ku mikurire ye ni inshingano ya buri wese. Umubyeyi ukurikiza izi nama azafasha umwana we mu buryo buhamye, ndetse azamufasha kugira impinduka nziza mu mikurire ye.
Turakagutumira gukomeza kwiga no gusoma ku bijyanye n’ubuzima bwo mu muryango, ibiribwa bifite intungamubiri, n’ibindi byinshi bitanga ishusho ijyanye n’iterambere ry’abana bacu. Ngaho dufatanyirize hamwe mu kubungabunga ubuzima bwiza bw’urubyiruko rwacu.
Ibibazo n’ibisubizo byibazwa kenshi
1. Ni gute umubyeyi ashobora kwita ku mirire y’umwana?
Umubyeyi ashobora kwita ku mirire y’umwana abaha ibiryo bifite intungamubiri n’amazi ahagije, akareba kandi ko ashyira mu bikorwa inama z’abaganga.
2. Urukundo rutuma umwana akura ate?
Urukundo ruhabwa umwana rutuma agira ibyiyumvo byiza, bigafasha mu mikurire ye no mu kubaka umubano mwiza n’abandi.
3. Gukurikira inama z’abaganga bifite akamaro ki?
Gukurikira inama z’abaganga bituma umubyeyi amenya uburyo bwiza bwo kwita ku mwana, bikanamufasha kumenya ibikenewe mu bihe bitandukanye by’imikurire y’umwana.
4. Ni ryari umubyeyi atangira gutanga imfashabere ku mwana?
Umubyeyi agomba gutangira gutanga imfashabere ku mwana ageze ku mezi 6 y’amavuko.
5. Ni gute umubyeyi ashobora gukurikirana imikurire y’umwana?
Umubyeyi ashobora gukurikirana imikurire y’umwana abifashijwemo no kumenya ingano y’ibyokurya akwiye, inshuro akwiye kurya ku munsi ndetse no guhangana n’ibibazo byo kudakunda kurya.