Umuhanzi Mesach Semakula yasangije ibitekerezo bye ku nshingano z’abagore biyemeza kugira ngo bagaragaze isura y’umugore nyakuri w’umwizerwa mu rugo.
Mu kiganiro yagiranye na SparkGirlfriends, Semakula yasobanuye ko kuba umugore w’urugo bifite inshingano runaka, inshingano y’uko bamwe mu bagore bakiri bato ubu batifuza kuzikora.
Nk’uko abyumva, bamwe mu bagore basobanura izi nshingano nk’aho abagabo bamerera nabi cyangwa basaba byinshi, ariko we arashimangira ko ari ibintu abagabo benshi bishimira mu rugo.
Kuba umugore w’urugo bifite inshingano, kandi benshi mu bakobwa bakiri bato ntibashaka cyangwa ntibishyira mu bikorwa. Iyo bamwe mu bagore basabwe kwitwara nk’umugore w’urugo, bibonwa nko guhezwa n’abagabo.
Hari ibintu bamwe mu bagore bafata nk’ibyoroshye, ariko mu by’ukuri, ni byo bituma abagabo bumva bafite agaciro k’umugabo mu rugo.
Yatanze urugero, avuga ko ikintu cyoroshye nko gusubiza vuba iyo basabwe gutegura icyayi gishobora kugira igisobanuro kinini ku bagabo bamwe.
Ariko, avuga ko hari abagore basubiza batinze, cyangwa bakabwira abagabo babo ngo bakwitegurira icyayi ubwabo, igikorwa yemeza ko abagabo benshi batishimira.
Semakula yashimangiye ko imico nk’iyo ishobora gutera amakimbirane mu miryango cyangwa no gutuma habaho gutandukana.
Ku bagore bitegura gushyingirwa by’ukuri, yabagiriye inama yo kureka ibyo yise “imico yo kudakora neza” kugira ngo hubakwe ingo zikomeye kandi zubaka amahoro.
